I’m Lorinda Pretorius, a Registered Counsellor (HPCSA) based in Centurion, South Africa.
My work focuses on relationships, emotional depth, and human flourishing. I specialise in in-person couples counselling and online Christian counselling for international clients.
I am particularly drawn to the places where people feel stuck. Conflict in relationships. Tension between faith and desire. The longing for connection paired with fear of vulnerability.
University of Johannesburg
South African College of Applied Psychology
University of Witwatersrand
Save Your Marriage Before It Starts
Gottman Institute
Gottman Institute
I believe that most relationship struggles are not about a lack of effort or care, but about unseen patterns, unmet needs, and unspoken fears.
In my work with couples, I pay close attention to:
My approach is holistic, meaning I consider emotional, relational, psychological, and, when relevant, spiritual dimensions of a person’s life.
For clients who desire it, I offer counselling that integrates Christian faith with psychological insight.
This is not directive or prescriptive work. It is a space to think honestly about faith, sexuality, boundaries, meaning, childhood wounds and desire.



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